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1200

Divorce Q & A: How to deal w/someone who doesnt coparent, is mentally not capable(PTSD/avoidant ignores me

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1199

Divorce Q & A: How to compel a co parent the impact of negative or positive reinforcement betwn parents?

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1198

Divorce Q & A: Actual steps to "letting go" ?

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1197

Divorce Q & A: How to deal with parental alienation

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1196

Divorce Q & A: How do you set effective boundaries with a narcopath?

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1195

Divorce Q & A: How do I move on without feeling bad that I am making my life better?

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1194

Divorce Q & A: What do I tell our kids about why we got divorced??

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1193

Your "ex": My coparent

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1192

Your "ex": ??head

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1191

Your "ex": Soul Crusher

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1190

Your "ex": My son's dad.

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1189

Unfriend: Yep and had a thing with one of them for a year or so after ?????

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1188

Unfriend: Nope. Wanted to expose his probably lying and show what he was missing out on ??

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1187

Unfriend: Yep. Him and every single friend and family member. #boundaries

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1186

Unfriend: Not yet. He still hasn't told them and there are a few I hope to stay connected with

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1185

Unfriend: He didn't have any ??

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1184

Unfriend: Yep! But a couple of his friends hunted me down to tell me I was far too good for him. ??

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1183

Unfriend: The few she has helped hide the affair so it was an easy goodbye to all of them.

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1182

Unfriend: Nope. Didn't unfriend my ex either-share kid pics. & his new profile pic is sad/satisfying ??

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1181

Unfriend: Yup - sayonara bitches!

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1180

Unfriend: They stopped talking to me. Made it easy for me

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1179

Unfriend: Yup! And our mutual friends that supported the ex

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1178

Unfriend: Unfriending my friends boyfriend after they break up is so satisfying. Like bye peasant, I never liked you anyways.

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1177

Describe your dream vacation: Planning my first solo trip. A little scary after 20 years of marriage.

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1176

Describe your dream vacation: A virtual reality where I can kill my ex and not go to jail

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1175

Describe your dream vacation: White Lotus location and funding - 10 days, completely disconnected

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1174

Describe your dream vacation: Mountains, trees, frozen pond, snow, skates

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1173

Describe your dream vacation: A private island oasis

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1172

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : Traumatic

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1171

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : That was the easy part lol. The hard part is him participating in the divorce process.

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1170

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : I said no to being emotionally coerced into a non-monogamous marriage. He left.

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1169

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : She didn't believe me. Then blamed me for moving on.

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1168

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : She didn't want to have the talk until she was sure she had a safe landing place.

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1167

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : Talk? All silent treatment here.

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1166

What was 'the divorce talk' like for you? : Middle of a the 100 th fight of the week I said I want a divorce and haven't changed my mind since!

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1165

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : You know how badly you've truly f*cked up and have lost everything.

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1164

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : I wish you were trolling my ex and her boyfriend

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1163

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : "It's NOT that common, it DOESN'T happen to every guy, and it IS a big deal!" ??

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1162

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : First thing ppl say to me now years later is how cringy your tiktoks are and ask if ur okay ??

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1161

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Living my best life free from you

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1160

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Stellar life choices idiot

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1159

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : child and spousal support are to be used to pay for your part, not just to increase yr savings.

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1158

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Hey Narc. Stop trying to cut me out of the kids lives. You're only hurting the kids

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1157

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Please tell @ to stop being a petty d-bag!!!

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1156

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Go to therapy

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1155

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : She's the Wish version of me

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1154

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : The world does not revolve around you! Grow up!

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1153

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : No I wont switch weekends, Y would u need to drive 7 hours to pick up your girlfriend from the airport?

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1152

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : I'd like to tell him what a chump I think he is and that I'll never, ever forgive him.

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1151

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : I know you're still sleeping with her and keep telling me lies. I won't ever trust you again (with the kids)

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1150

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : I'm not even sure I can/should type it here. ????

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1149

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : You are a narcissist sociopath whose abuse of process has spent all of the money we had.

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1148

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : me:?? vs You: 0

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1147

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : So many. I send them to my therapist instead ??????

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1146

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : To my almost ex girlfriend that he regrets her and they will never last ?????

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What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Were you that cheap today that you didn't feed our daughter? (She came back to me hungry.)

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1144

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Not sure it's safe fro social media lol

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1143

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : FYI I just told your sisters that we got divorced because you cheated on me.

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1142

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : Depending on day - its either I still love you or hate your guts!

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1141

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : "Hey, hope you're well. But also, f*ck off."

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1140

What's a text you'd like to send to your ex (but won't)? : You blame the women in your life for all your problems but common denominator is YOU

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1139

How did you let people know about your divorce? : I need ideas - I was married for 25 years....

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1138

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Invited alll my friends and family to my divorce party.. it took a very long time and needed celebrating

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How did you let people know about your divorce? : Changed my profile to my maiden name

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1136

How did you let people know about your divorce? : My ex posted a pic of himself crying and told all of social media

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1135

How did you let people know about your divorce? : The smile on my face! ??

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1134

How did you let people know about your divorce? : She didn't tell anyone. I told people when I absolutely had too.

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1133

How did you let people know about your divorce? : I turned our wedding website into a divorce announcement and shared the link on social media

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1132

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Slowly and quietly deleted pics with my ex on Instagram until gone. Selfies from solo trip.

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How did you let people know about your divorce? : Christmas photos with just me and my son ?????

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1130

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Conversation w/ immediate family. Social media/word of mouth/casually talking for others

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1129

How did you let people know about your divorce? : Deleted wedding photos. Almost replaced w/meme "once a cheater, always a cheater" ??

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How did you let people know about your divorce? : She posted selfies and I changed my profile pic to me and the kids.

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1127

How did you let people know about your divorce? : That's how we did it ????? friend did a whole multiple IG slide announcement, they're amicabl

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How did you let people know about your divorce? : On a need to know basis. And then a simple "we're separated/divorced" with no details.

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How did you let people know about your divorce? : Not til the ink is dry

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1124

How did you let people know about your divorce? : I was changing my name, and I am a teacher, I made a public post asking for support and understanding

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How did you let people know about your divorce? : Chanded status to SINGLE ??

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1122

Ask a lawyer : Any advice for a stay at home mom filing for divorce?

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Ask a lawyer : He's moved out. Can I move with the kids without his permission while separated?

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Ask a lawyer : How to document for a change in parenting time with a high conflict ex

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Ask a lawyer : Is 250k per child normal for a life ins request

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Ask a lawyer : W a settlement agrmnt, not signed, how do I frame request for reimbursements..?

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Ask a lawyer : What can I do for pets left behind? 2 years apart because I'm afraid of ex. He says he will keep them:(

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Ask a lawyer : Married over 25 years, not div. yet, if I leave martial home do I forfeit property rights

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Ask a lawyer : Why's it take sooooo long???

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Ask a lawyer : I'm a SAHM - will I get enough support now that I'm going to get a job and need childcare?

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How did your employer support you? : Helped cover costs of marriage counseling initially

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How did your employer support you? : Understanding but more workload, the distraction honestly helped a ton.

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How did your employer support you? : Added more work!!!!!! ??

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How did your employer support you? : Big issue is with needing to clarify which lawyer (family or employment) I'm talking about

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1109

How did your employer support you? : Paying for my divorce and all the headaches around it, plus a little extra hopefully because of that

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1108

How did your employer support you? : I'm suing them because they put it in writing that my performance was poor due to family status. They're

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1107

How did your employer support you? : By riding me about everything and trying to fire me.

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1106

How did your employer support you? : Understanding low productivity and having patience like no other. Took a year to get back to normal

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1105

How did your employer support you? : Told her I decided to divorce, she handed me tissue, said I'll be fine and it's his lost. Got a Promotion 2!

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How did your employer support you? : Sat me down and opened up to me. Showed they actually cared about me as a person

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How did your employer support you? : What support?

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How did your employer support you? : Less Workload

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How did your employer support you? : They let me vent. But I work in behavioral health so that's cheating.

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Divorce Confession # 11

"Life after divorce can feel isolating AF"

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Divorce Confession # 10

"Ex introduced our kids to his new gf and didn't tell me, even after we agreed this was the min expectation."

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Divorce Confession # 12

My ex is toxic AF and I can't call him out bc it adds fuel to the 🔥 and he gets worse 😤

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Divorce Confession # 14

"Despise when married parents mention my "free time". hello you have 2 adult house.  It's my CATCH UP."

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Divorce Confession # 5

"Now that divorce is so close I'm scared I will regret it."

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