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Confession # 
829

The hardest part about leaving abusive partner.: I want to believe that I am doing the right thing, yet I am dragging things up because I am worried that I am doing something wrong!

Confession # 
828

I closed on a house today. I finally have a home again after everything.

Confession # 
827

My ex's mother is my child's parent. Take care of her or give me full custody!

Confession # 
826

Don't know if I can co parent with him!

Confession # 
825

Complicated feelings about riding solo at my twin sis's wedding this weekend, but excited to dance the night away and flirt with the wedding band

Confession # 
824

It's been 6 months since he walked out and I am such happier that I ever thought I would be!

Confession # 
823

9 more years until our daughter is 18 and my abuser no longer can abuse me via court. Hopefully less until he can no longer abuse our daughter, because one day, her voice will be "old enough" to matter.

Confession # 
822

First hearing is Thursday. He just needs to leave already!

Confession # 
821

He started dating an ex before he moved out and seems so happy it makes me mad ??

Confession # 
820

Realizing I may grow old alone.

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819

Does the gaslighting and abuse EVER stop?!?

Confession # 
817

Why do men have such an easier time finding great women.? Maybe I'll date ladies!

Confession # 
816

Seeing me exH fake life on Facebook because of "mutual" friends posts is still triggering 3 years out. I still get mad at myself that seeing him with the mistress still affects me.

Confession # 
815

Resentful that I have to stay in a state with no family nearby when he cheated

Confession # 
814

So tired of hearing "I screwed up," said like "it's raining outside," do something about it.

Confession # 
813

How much stronger I am since 5 years ago!!

Confession # 
812

Blocking his number for a few days just gives me space to recharge

Confession # 
808

It happened last week! Oh wait, he wants to take a new job for less money and adjust CS. ???????

Confession # 
807

Man of my dreams asked me to commit to him, but divorce isn't final...

Confession # 
806

2 yrs on. Don't miss x but do miss being married ??

Confession # 
805

I just want my ex out of my life and this to be over!

Confession # 
804

Why won't he accept we are over?!?

Confession # 
803

The waiting is the hardest part.

Confession # 
802

When you divorce a narcissist, is it ever really over? His revenge attacks keep coming

Confession # 
801

Goin thru divorce. Want to hook up w someone else but feel like I'm doing something wrong.

Confession # 
800

Feeling so betrayed and angry

Confession # 
799

ITS SO EXPENSIVE AND TIME CONSUIMING ??????

Confession # 
798

Why do they keep dragging it out??? ??

Confession # 
797

co-parenting schedule has gone off the rails ??

Confession # 
796

Goin thru divorce. Want to hook up w someone else but feel like I'm doing something wrong.

Confession # 
795

BD not paying a penny of what he's supposed to. No idea how I'm going to make rent this mon

Confession # 
794

How much money divorce is costing me ?? ??

Confession # 
793

Struggling w being discarded by my in-laws. It is as painful as the discard by my cheating ex.

Confession # 
792

Cohabiting still. He's manipulating me out of sons love and time

Confession # 
791

Who pays for cell phones, cars, college YEARS later? Not negotiated during divorce.

Confession # 
790

Does it always feel like you're doing more than your co-parent?

Confession # 
789

14 yr old wants to only live with dad- wtf do I do?!!!!

Confession # 
788

2/2 Coparents is "unraveling" as my therapist has said. Nervous for his reaction

Confession # 
787

1/2 Lawyer, family, friends pushing for 60/40 access schedule. Not sure if that's best

Confession # 
786

How did you rationalize the fear of only getting your kid half the time? I may stay unhappy to not

Confession # 
785

Feeling the feels in the middle of the process is so mucky but worth it to get thru to freedom!

Confession # 
782

Had my first date post divorce and it felt good to feel alive again

Confession # 
781

Today marks one year since they asked for a divorce and my life changed forever. It was finalized July 13 and I'm so much happier

Confession # 
780

Just finalized it and now he wants to make changes to parenting agreement ??

Confession # 
779

My ex is a man child. Full stop.

Confession # 
777

Memories of my married life keep popping up unexpectedly and it's hard to deal with

Confession # 
775

Thankful we can search many court records online - don't say you're divorced when you aint!

Confession # 
774

I need it to be over now! ??

Confession # 
773

Wealthy ex husband just sent me a bill for �144.03. I'm gonna round it up to �145.00 for him.

Confession # 
772

I thought everything was over in my divorce, nope! two years later heading back to court ???????

Confession # 
771

Want it to be done and over with!!

Confession # 
770

I SHOULD be divorced by the end of this week. It's the final countdown. I'm ready?!

Confession # 
769

Another $5k into the attorneys trust account, when will it end.

Confession # 
768

Feels like signing up for a war I can't win and will damage my kid in the process

Confession # 
767

Dealing with a narcissistic ex that makes everything into my fault despite their choices...

Confession # 
766

COVID+ this week. Tried to protect the negative kids. She wanted to get paid. So I paid ???????

Confession # 
764

it takes me 24 hours to adjust to transition days with the kids.

Confession # 
763

co-parenting with kids' sports. It's. A lot. ??

Confession # 
762

My ex is a histrionic covert narcissist and went on a smear campaign to teachers, my kids friends parents and any one she can get her hooks in. Even to the landlord of 10 year as a perfect tenant. She convinced them to evict me and my kids. WTF?!

Confession # 
761

Never being certain I made the right decision 💔

Confession # 
760

Kindergarten. Coparent told me he didn't agree w/me registering for kindergarten 😳

Confession # 
759

So tired of getting duped - first my ex, now potential men I'd like to date.

Confession # 
758

Ex harassed, bullied, and belittled our 11 yr old when she spoke upt ot her therapist about him drinking and driving. Dcs couldn't take them from him. When did a child's voice become less than an abusers?!?

Confession # 
757

Divorce is set to be finalized next Fri. Feeling confident. Will that melt to sadness?

Confession # 
756

Ex husband and new gf talking about "blending" families 5 months into meeting my kids...

Confession # 
754

The explosiveness about the stages. I told him I am leaving. The next week "i have cancer.." WTF 😭

Confession # 
753

Isolating. I feel as tho ppl view me as scum on the bottom of their shoe. I'm literally just trying to move on with my life.

Confession # 
752

Really thought I'd be done with his control but found out he can still control with money

Confession # 
751

I'd like no contact with their dad, but that would hurt the kids.

Confession # 
750

Happy parents living apart is always way better for the kids in the long run

Confession # 
749

I don't want my kids to ever sacrifice their happiness for any person so I have to walk the walk.

Confession # 
748

This changed me. How do you even trust again?

Confession # 
747

This man I had kids with will be in my life 4-eva and I hate it.

Confession # 
746

Stbx has started refusing to speak to my lawyer because it's "too expensive"

Confession # 
745

I wanted this separation & I wanted him to date as I thought it would allow me to move on when he did I became the worse version of me... a lot of work on myself ahead to do

Confession # 
744

Looking at "nesting" AKA "bird nesting" as an option. Havae read lots online but would love to hear real input from anyone who has done it.

Confession # 
743

How much more money it's going to cost to get it all sorted! I'm in so much debt 😫

Confession # 
742

Ex needs to get educated about co-parenting, won't do it because she's the mother and "just knows"

Confession # 
741

Kids pick up on all hidden stressors. As long as there's ❤️ & communication kids thrive

Confession # 
740

What's best for the parents always translates to what's best for the kids.

Confession # 
739

Be open and honest with the kids, acknowledging that you understand this sucks.

Confession # 
738

Do your best to honor your kids' needs but ultimately there are compromises made.

Confession # 
737

What if what's best for us hurts the kids? 😩

Confession # 
736

Back to school is a clusterf*ck

Confession # 
735

Dating....ugh...having to do it all over...again...

Confession # 
734

Damage to the kids from total abandonment is brutal for them. Trying to support them is hard

Confession # 
733

Husband wants to sell matrial home we all live in b4 divorce help

Confession # 
732

My 💩 ex filed a protective order to keep me from his financial records. 😒

Confession # 
731

Every time I think it's almost done there's another issue 😫 Let me be free!!!

Confession # 
730

10 years divorced and it's still nasty. His put downs still hurt.

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Divorce Confession # 11

"Life after divorce can feel isolating AF"

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Divorce Confession # 10

"Ex introduced our kids to his new gf and didn't tell me, even after we agreed this was the min expectation."

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Divorce Confession # 12

My ex is toxic AF and I can't call him out bc it adds fuel to the 🔥 and he gets worse 😤

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Divorce Confession # 14

"Despise when married parents mention my "free time". hello you have 2 adult house.  It's my CATCH UP."

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Divorce Confession # 5

"Now that divorce is so close I'm scared I will regret it."

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