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762

My ex is a histrionic covert narcissist and went on a smear campaign to teachers, my kids friends parents and any one she can get her hooks in. Even to the landlord of 10 year as a perfect tenant. She convinced them to evict me and my kids. WTF?!

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761

Never being certain I made the right decision 💔

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760

Kindergarten. Coparent told me he didn't agree w/me registering for kindergarten 😳

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759

So tired of getting duped - first my ex, now potential men I'd like to date.

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758

Ex harassed, bullied, and belittled our 11 yr old when she spoke upt ot her therapist about him drinking and driving. Dcs couldn't take them from him. When did a child's voice become less than an abusers?!?

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757

Divorce is set to be finalized next Fri. Feeling confident. Will that melt to sadness?

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756

Ex husband and new gf talking about "blending" families 5 months into meeting my kids...

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754

The explosiveness about the stages. I told him I am leaving. The next week "i have cancer.." WTF 😭

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753

Isolating. I feel as tho ppl view me as scum on the bottom of their shoe. I'm literally just trying to move on with my life.

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752

Really thought I'd be done with his control but found out he can still control with money

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751

I'd like no contact with their dad, but that would hurt the kids.

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750

Happy parents living apart is always way better for the kids in the long run

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749

I don't want my kids to ever sacrifice their happiness for any person so I have to walk the walk.

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748

This changed me. How do you even trust again?

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747

This man I had kids with will be in my life 4-eva and I hate it.

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746

Stbx has started refusing to speak to my lawyer because it's "too expensive"

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745

I wanted this separation & I wanted him to date as I thought it would allow me to move on when he did I became the worse version of me... a lot of work on myself ahead to do

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744

Looking at "nesting" AKA "bird nesting" as an option. Havae read lots online but would love to hear real input from anyone who has done it.

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743

How much more money it's going to cost to get it all sorted! I'm in so much debt 😫

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742

Ex needs to get educated about co-parenting, won't do it because she's the mother and "just knows"

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741

Kids pick up on all hidden stressors. As long as there's ❤️ & communication kids thrive

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740

What's best for the parents always translates to what's best for the kids.

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739

Be open and honest with the kids, acknowledging that you understand this sucks.

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738

Do your best to honor your kids' needs but ultimately there are compromises made.

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737

What if what's best for us hurts the kids? 😩

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736

Back to school is a clusterf*ck

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735

Dating....ugh...having to do it all over...again...

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734

Damage to the kids from total abandonment is brutal for them. Trying to support them is hard

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733

Husband wants to sell matrial home we all live in b4 divorce help

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732

My 💩 ex filed a protective order to keep me from his financial records. 😒

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731

Every time I think it's almost done there's another issue 😫 Let me be free!!!

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730

10 years divorced and it's still nasty. His put downs still hurt.

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729

Anyone else curious why their child's parent is still breathing? 💆 rough day today yall 💆

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728

What happens when I run out of money and he keeps bringing me to court?

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726

Hardest thing I ever did. Best thing I ever did.

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725

Why is basic scheduling so difficult for her? I laid it all out...

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724

Waiting for my final divorce decree to be mailed to me!

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723

Found the love of my life after divorce. It's possible! "Good enough" doesn't have to be!

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721

Divorced but still feeling taken advantage of. I'm the responsible parent.

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720

My boyfriend thought about reconciliation with his ex wife. I want to vomit..

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719

My ex keeps trying to be friendly with me even though he just married his mistress. Wtf

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718

Hating feeling like the other shoe's gonna drop... Ex is agreeing to a settlement after we fought so long

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717

Why do they drag it out? It's costing them more money too?!

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716

How to tell kids (10,6,3,1) we are moving out of state but the older sister will be staying with bio mom?

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715

Co-parenting school & sports schedule is giving me anxiety 😬

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714

Feels like I'm backsliding....

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713

Struggling as my divorce nears. We are both still in love with one another…just have drifted so far apart and want different things at this stage of our life. Honestly not sure if I’ll regret it or not.

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712

Trying to figure out if my lack of desire to see anyone is a problem or if I'm enjoying my peace?

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711

Spent 2 productive hrs on the phone w coparent discussing kids' sports and Aug plans. It gets better 🤍

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710

I wish my ex put as much time into coparenting as he does his hobbies.

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709

It's all awful and I'm depleted! Physically, emotionally and financially.

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708

Can't wait until child is 18 so no more communication required. Just me?

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707

family whilst he has the house new girlfriend. He was sleeping with me when they met.

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706

Refuses to see my contribution as home maker and wont sell half our house. We are living 1/2

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705

Being told that I'm harassing her when trying to ask for a schedule regarding extra curriculars 😵

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704

When I try to communicate he either ignores me or we go to court

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703

Only communicated by email. Documentation.

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702

Child support bank transfer message: Last $ you'll get from me. Includes a giant Blow me!

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701

Currenlty in conflict w ex over him allowing gf's 7th grader to babysit our 2nd grader 🤦🏻‍♀️

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700

Every commitment the ex has made has been broken

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699

Wouldn't give 50/50 so he decided to disappear on the kids. Thinks they'll hate *me* afor not seeing him.

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698

So happy we barely interact anymore

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697

Today was supposed to be 25th anniversary. Even after final from toxic ex, still hits hard.

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696

Men talk about always taking care of their ex wives to an extent. Wish mine felt that way.

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695

to anyone having 🤯😱 coparenting convos please share. I'm a chismosa 😅

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694

STOP ASKING FOR NUDES. ITS GROSS.

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693

So so so tired of hookup culture. Just love me! 🤦🏻‍♀️

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692

How do u coparent when kids choose no communication due to stbx's coercive control

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691

My happiness is no longer tied to his. And that make me smile.

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690

Officially divorced for almost a week now!!! I wanna go celebrate 😊

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689

So glad it's finalized...that was a long 13 months of unknown

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688

What is the ring selling website again? Wanna try to sell my band 🙂✌️👋

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687

Not ready for a traditional relationship & fam members don't understand

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686

Cohabitating with ex makes it very hard to move on and live my best life 😔 any tips?

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685

I hate the thought of my kids going away with him and his new gf

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684

He has 8 more days to respond then it's default settlement for me! Wahoo!

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683

I hurt so bad, even 6 months after my husband of 20 years walked away without warning

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682

How thankful I am for Our Family Wizard.

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681

I'm better off, and even if it feels like I'm drowning sometimes it still feels LESS HARD somehow?

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680

Original final court date got pushed back a month! 😠

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679

My mental health is better by not being in a relationship w/ him, but I still have to coparent

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678

The co-parenting text conversations I have are 🤯

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677

I feel like my friends and family don't get how hard it can be.

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676

He's with the affair partner, that was short-lived. She wasn't special. And the next one won't be either.

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675

He just married affair partner. It's soul crushing. But I have faith karma will make it right. 😈

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673

I'm conscious and feel guilty that my stbx is having to deal with this ☹️

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672

1/2 He keeps changing stupid things so we can't finalize

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671

2/2 b/c he doesn't want to pay for his own benefits

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670

Toughest yet best thing to happen. Heres to the next chapter. 🍾

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669

A short stint on some of the dating apps and I'm going to go old school & find someone IRL

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668

Realizing it was the best choice for my mental health. I deserved better

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667

Delay after delay after delay after (carry on)...

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666

Ex got Fired from his job Tuesday... def throws a wrench in the divorce

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665

Ther person that I love the most, is the same person I hate the most.

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663

If all goes well, July 21st should be finally officially divorced. 😊

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662

He came home and I said "it's time to separate" then we talked..

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Divorce Confession # 11

"Life after divorce can feel isolating AF"

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Divorce Confession # 10

"Ex introduced our kids to his new gf and didn't tell me, even after we agreed this was the min expectation."

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Divorce Confession # 12

My ex is toxic AF and I can't call him out bc it adds fuel to the 🔥 and he gets worse 😤

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Divorce Confession # 14

"Despise when married parents mention my "free time". hello you have 2 adult house.  It's my CATCH UP."

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Divorce Confession # 5

"Now that divorce is so close I'm scared I will regret it."

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