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Confession # 
1002

Schedules, navigating when to introduce, and combining families if you get there

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1001

Either working 12 hour shifts or have children... so little time!

Confession # 
1000

When parenting schedules are opposite.

Confession # 
997

I don't know 🤷‍♀️ how to do it anymore 😂 and not sure I want to, honestly.

Confession # 
996

1/2 being on the same parenting schedule!

Confession # 
995

Kid is sick or I'm sick most of the time

Confession # 
994

Explaining, it's ok to date. I won't bring anyone into their lives unless he is very, important.

Confession # 
993

Schedules, when to introduce kids to each other

Confession # 
992

Not wanting to expose them to the same dating trauma I had as a child of widow.

Confession # 
991

Tell people you meet off rip that you need flexibility. Also, Be flexible

Confession # 
990

Schedule match w new partner & games palyed by their x when they realize what time u want

Confession # 
989

Finding a balance of alone time and getting to know their kids

Confession # 
988

Scared of the apps. I have zero dating experience (we had been together since HS).

Confession # 
987

The schedule /timing help to watch kids

Confession # 
986

Scheduling time without your kids

Confession # 
984

Trusting myself again to pick a good partner

Confession # 
982

When men resent you for you kids being first priority

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981

Finding someone that will click with my kids. If it's off it's a deal breaker

Confession # 
980

Scheduling of course and having a significantly reduced threshold for bullshit.

Confession # 
978

TIme. Finding time with and without the kids to form the new relationship

Confession # 
977

Finding someone you like with your same days/weekends

Confession # 
976

Finding a trusted sitter and meeting men who don't have kids, but understand.

Confession # 
975

Having time. Between work and kids activities my social life is non existent.

Confession # 
974

Figuring out if a new potential partner truly is ready for the shit show 😂

Confession # 
973

The scheduling gods must align, otherwise there's no hope.

Confession # 
972

My issues were with here, not the family I never stopped loving them.

Confession # 
971

Showed empathy towards the family & held my boundaries. Paid my respects on my own

Confession # 
970

Inappropriate to say I'll celebratebif it's his parents? 😬

Confession # 
969

I'd love to see responses to this! Currently struggling with the same 2 mo post divorce

Confession # 
968

Go to the wake and pay your respects to the family

Confession # 
967

Grieve privately ... if things are not great between you and your old family, it's best to stay away

Confession # 
966

Decision/actions. They don't feel safe w ppl who support him but not them and their trauma

Confession # 
963

Tough one when ex is abusive and controlling. Grieve with my kids, support them in their -

Confession # 
962

I took my kids to the funeral. Kept to myself. Game my ex a hug afterwards. It was fine.

Confession # 
961

He told me I wasn't welcome at the funeral for a niece that passed.

Confession # 
960

I've been trying to have settlement talks since Feb 2022....and he's delaying it all.

Confession # 
959

Dating after divorce with 2 children

Confession # 
958

Wrkd on myself, put myself out there. Mtg women I thought were "out of my league" 🤗

Confession # 
957

How to navigate a death on his side of the family. They were my family too.

Confession # 
955

That akward feeling when you aren't on best nor bad terms.

Confession # 
954

Why does dating have to be so difficult? Why do men want women to make the first move?

Confession # 
953

Ex won't take no for an answer on getting back together. We have kids so I can't cut him out. Frustrating

Confession # 
952

I just agreed to settlement but found out again he's intro'Ed someone new to the kids. 😡

Confession # 
951

1st relationship post divorce. He's soooo clingy. Maybe I should have stayed single...

Confession # 
950

Money is being a big problem ?? and my ex is travel, buying a new house with his girlfriend

Confession # 
949

Ex bringing new partner in too early.

Confession # 
948

He finally submitted his financials that were due on june 25/2022!!!!!!!!!!!

Confession # 
947

Lost myself in my marriage Found myself again through my divorce!

Confession # 
946

Finally went on my first post date divore tonight!!!

Confession # 
945

How can I deal with the pain of being left?

Confession # 
944

How did he quit on our kids so easily?! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Confession # 
943

Wherre did all these MILFs come from?

Confession # 
942

Exhausted. Vetting attorneys for the latest round-false accusation of alienating child.

Confession # 
941

Coparenting with someone who still tries to control you via the young kids is just wild 🤯

Confession # 
940

There are so many "seasons" of divorce and recovery from it. They come so fast and hit so hard.

Confession # 
939

I am hating dating so much! Felons, married men, and ghosting. Ugh!

Confession # 
938

The men that prey on newly diorced single moms is disgusting.

Confession # 
937

Mine might actually be coming to an end here soon. It been over a year! 😐

Confession # 
936

A friend saw my ex with a woman who looks so much like me he was gonna hug her!! 👯

Confession # 
935

Trying the dating apps...halp!!!

Confession # 
934

Not ready to tell my ex about an out of town trip I have planned 😰

Confession # 
933

Lonely. It's lonely on the other side sometimes

Confession # 
932

Boundaries and less than a week til divorce is final!

Confession # 
931

Can't get through to co that they are emotionally harming child by limiting communication

Confession # 
930

Dating again sucks! I'm just going to be single forever and die alone 😂 🙈

Confession # 
929

The anxiety is so consuming I feel like I'm not going to survive

Confession # 
928

My STBX is a stage 5 clinger. He needs new friends or a hobby, or hell, a girlfriend! 🤣

Confession # 
927

4 years in trying to get divorced. Going through the courts he fights me on everything!

Confession # 
926

Dating seemed easier in my head

Confession # 
925

It's like people can't help but say the dumbest things about my divorce

Confession # 
924

Kids schedules back n forth get so crazy, it's hard on me, must take a toll on them.

Confession # 
923

This part really sucks 😔 but you do get to know who your real friends are.

Confession # 
922

Yes. Mostly because I dont trust them-they support the abuser disguised as a victim

Confession # 
921

Sure did. Lost my whole family (parents, siblings, aunt, uncle, cousin) too. They picked him 🤷‍♀️

Confession # 
920

Unfriended and blocked on social media because they believed his side of the story.

Confession # 
919

I chose to remove them. But yes. And I'm better for it. I chose people who chose me.

Confession # 
918

I'm not responsible for raising my ex. 🤪

Confession # 
917

My ex partner's narrative of me

Confession # 
916

Convincing other people why I wanted/needed a divorce

Confession # 
915

I am not responsible for making everyone feel ok cuz a lot of this will feel awful and that is ok

Confession # 
914

Making sure my side is told... who cares

Confession # 
913

I don't get why people still get married. Specially if you are a man. Divorce grape is real....

Confession # 
912

How do I get through this and not ruin everyone

Confession # 
911

He's taking me to court for access he's never wanted to see the child and I've never stopped him. 😐🙃

Confession # 
910

Why people call it throwing away people when it just didn't work out.

Confession # 
909

Why can't he find a place and move out?!?

Confession # 
908

Spent thousands + years to finzalize & now he wants to reconcile 4 the kids 🙄

Confession # 
907

Fair! Fair! Fair! Her insistence that life is supposed to be fair is driving us straight to court.

Confession # 
906

I am 1000% ok being the 80 yo cat lady sitting alone on my porch swing. At least it's mine.

Confession # 
904

Feeling sad my almost 4 y/o will miss every other week of dance bc her dad won't take her 😢

Confession # 
903

it's been two years and I'm only now getting over it. Realizing how selfish and cold ex was.

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Divorce Confession # 11

"Life after divorce can feel isolating AF"

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Divorce Confession # 10

"Ex introduced our kids to his new gf and didn't tell me, even after we agreed this was the min expectation."

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Divorce Confession # 12

My ex is toxic AF and I can't call him out bc it adds fuel to the 🔥 and he gets worse 😤

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Divorce Confession # 14

"Despise when married parents mention my "free time". hello you have 2 adult house.  It's my CATCH UP."

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Divorce Confession # 5

"Now that divorce is so close I'm scared I will regret it."

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